What does V-steaming have to do with Video & Visibility?

You may be wondering why I keep talking about V-steaming and what the heck it has to do with Video & Visibility.   I can explain

My passion has been to help transformational women entrepreneurs share their message on video so that their message lands in people’s hearts and bodies as a felt experience, rather than landing as information into their  heads.

Information alone is not enough to hold anyone’s attention anymore.  We’re inundated with it.

So I focus on helping these brave fem-preneurs occupy their bodies on video, so that they can actually  transmit their message.  Which is not always easy because being seen on video can be somewhat triggering and send you right up into your head without realizing it.

This is a natural, protective pattern that many of us do unconsciously.

When I first V-steamed, I had a peak experience of feeling completely grounded in my body as I’ve never ever felt before.  I went to my dance class afterward and I felt so relaxed, so at home, and so present with everyone I spoke to.

And each person I spoke to later asked me what I had done.  They were very impacted by how present I was, the ease I felt within myself and the natural confidence I exuded.

This felt  like  I had finally cracked the code on accessing true confidence and power and I wanted MORE of it!

I realized that though I had been teaching women to be in their bodies, I wasn’t teaching them to embody their pelvis, yoni, womb  because I didn’t realize that WASN’T embodying my pelvis, yoni, womb!!

Oh…eM…Gee!!!

I wanted to access this power on video!

Now I wish I could say I have continued to feel that same uber  level of connection and  groundedness.  Not exactly as overt and dramatic.  Those first 3 V-steams were peak experiences- and as such, they are rare, sacred moments to be cherished and called upon for support .

Just because I don’t have that same type of peak experience doesn’t mean I’m not receiving profound healing anymore.

Slowly but surely, I am shedding protective armoring and layers of stored stuck energy and trauma and I feel myself a little bit more with each V-steam.

And I become more visible to myself.

As I become more visible to myself, I feel safer in my body and more fearless to have more parts of myself seen by others. Parts that I used to hide from myself and others.

V-steaming is a transformational tool to occupy your pelvis, yoni, womb– to feel more of yourself– to access your Sacred Feminine Power.  And the more you access your Sacred Feminine Power, the easier it is to be fiercely visible  and to be your authentic self on video and truly transmit your message.

And I want that for you!!

If you’d like to learn more about V-steaming watch the video above.

Please share your insights in the comments below on embodying your Sacred Feminine Power,  being fiercely visible and authentically transmitting your message!

 


V-St(R)eam #3: squatting & child’s pose!!

So it’s official!  I announced onV-St(R)eam #2 that I was going to make this an ongoing show- Thursdays 10 or 11 am PT!

In this 3rd V-St(R)eam, I demonstrate a very simple way to V-steam without the use of a V-steam chair, or Yoni Sauna or toilet!  The benefit, in addition to simplicity, is that you get the benefit of squatting which helps relax and lengthen the pelvic floor muscles which helps create a happy, reslient yoni!  Win Win!  Check it out!

All you need is a bowl- I use a very special ceramic bowl that has a ceremonial meaning to me.

It is handmade by my mother and it is thicker than most bowls. It’s not thrown on a pottery wheel. She used a slab roller and that’s why it’s thick and very ‘imperfect’ looking- which makes it all the more special to me. The thickness and heaviness lends itself perfectly for squatting and sitting on the edge if you need a little break from squatting! It’s a smooth, wide edge so it’s comfortable and the height is perfect.

This dual purpose style of V-steaming is not widely shared but I’m guessing is far closer to how it’s done by indigenous women all over the world currently and how it was done in ancient times.  It feels like it’s creating a deeper portal to the womb and more shamanic as a result.

Please let me know how it works for you.  And I will be sharing my experiences as I continue to explore the squatting positiong as well as the child’s pose position which is deeply relaxing and meditative.

I’m utterly thrilled to have tapped into this method and I thank Sama Morningstar for suggesting it to me as a way of healing vaginismus- which is an overly tight vagina which inhibits intercourse.  So in combination with the steam softening the muscles, the relaxing and lengthening  from the squatting can accelerate healing this condition and restore more sexual pleasure. Win Win Win!


V-St(R)eam #2: It’s official! Welcome to the new show!

Well, the hemp oil really helped me chill so I decided to “V-St(R)eam” again on Facebook Live!!  And I’m inspired to V-St(R)eam regularly to really help spread this incredible healing practice further and farther!

In this 2nd episode of V-St(R)eaming, I share the brilliant Womb Healer Marcia Lopez’s statement that:  “V-Steaming won’t heal Everything (though it does heal A LOT!!) but it WILL CHANGE your life!”  And I couldn’t agree with her more.

I will share many ways in which V-Steaming can CHANGE your life in each episode!  Join me live, Thursdays 11amPT and V-Steam with me!! I’ll also be V-St(R)emaing spontaneously at other random times during the week 😉

I will be interviewing Marcia Lopez and many other amazing leaders who are reclaiming  Sacred Feminine Power!

If you’d like to be on the cutting edge of this incredible Sacred Feminine Power Awakening, hop onto my mailing list and find out who I’ll be interviewing, and what resources I’ll be sharing each week –  click here!

The inaugural, first episode of V-St(R)eaming can be accessed here.

And to learn about how and the benefits of squatting and child’s pose during V=steaming, check out V-st(R)eam #3!

If you have any questions or comments about V-Steaming, Sacred Feminine Power and beyond, please post below!  Lets do this together!!  If you’d like to contribute to the conversation and be interviewed, please reach out to me: michelle@michellewhitehart.com I”m excited to spread this message with your unique perspective!

 


Did I really just V-steam on Facebook Live??🙀

V-steam + Facebook Live(stream) = V-St(r)eaming!!!


Oh yes, I did!  Check me out!!

It was a little edgy, I admit… when you think about it…. But the hemp oil was so relaxing, I really didn’t think twice about it!

But whyyyyy did you do that?  Something so sacred and intimate…. on Facebook Live???!!!

Because I’m on a mission to ‘normalize’ V-steaming!

Actually….. drumroll please….

I”m on a mission to ‘normalize’ and awaken Sacred Feminine Power!

— aka normalize embodying your yoni/pussy/vulva… you get the picture… which includes your womb!

While women are V-steaming all over Youtube, and I am so grateful they are, because they’re the reason I even know about V-steaming, let alone HOW to V-steam!!

I decided someone had to start V-steaming on Facebook!!  It’s more intimate,  it’s LIVE, and it’s REALLY VISIBLE ….and it had to be done.

So I made it as matter of fact as I could!   What do you think?!!

Is it too edgy?

Do you think it’s helping womankind?

Is it piquing your curiosity to try it out for yourself?

Are you V-steaming already?

Do you feel a little trepidatious trying this out on your own?

I’m oh so curious!  Please let me know in the comments below!  I would so appreciate it!

If you comment, I’ll be your best friend!! 

Ha! Actually, if you comment, I’ll send you a video  that goes into greater depth about the spiritual, trauma healing aspect of V-steaming!

 


How to be Yourself on Video – Be in Your Body!

What’s the ‘trick’ to being yourself on video?  Get ‘Tantric’ with the camera- of course!  Here’s a free training where I show you how to build this skill- it’s totally learnable!

As you may have heard me rant over the years, I feel we are at our best on video, when we are sharing from our whole body, rather than sharing our knowledge from our head.

What does sharing from your whole body mean, you ask?

It means you’re actually ‘in your body’ and speaking in that ‘state’– it means you can feel your feet on the ground, you can feel your breath, maybe a little nervousness or whatever is true for you in the moment- maybe excitement and you don’t bypass those feelings and jump straight into your head– you actually feel all of that and speak while feeling all of that.

This is a skill you can learn to do.  What we normally do if we’re nervous is we jump out of our bodies so that we don’t have to feel that nervousness and we start worrying in our head and try to ignore all of that, push through it and end up speaking entirely from our head…

Why is that not good? You might be asking yourself.

Well it means your 70% non-verbal communication is not fully landing in your audience.  They won’t be able to FEEL you and whatever you’re talking about won’t be easy to understand.  It’ll put them into their head trying to understand it, rather than just receiving your transmission.

You transmit your message when you deliver it from your whole body.

So how do you speak from your whole body?  Watch the video above!

It is my joy that this training helps you be yourself and transmit your wisdom effectively on video!  Do let me know in the comments how it works for you!

Cheering you on!


🔟 Ways to make CONNECTION 🔀 Videos !

I call my latest video solution: ‘Connection’ Videos. 

(Click the image to hear the Facebook Live about it.)

 

 

 

 

You might be asking, “what’s a Connection’ Video?”

Great question-  since, all videos are most effective when you are ‘connecting.’  Right?

This is the essence of video-making- in my world.

You want to connect to yourself AND to your audience, when you make your videos because people will be able to FEEL (and KNOW) you more AND this will help them to HEAR and DIGEST your message more!!

 and drumroll please

>>>They will LIKE and TRUST you more! <<<

When you connect to yourself and to your audience,  you are in your body and not just rattling away in your head.  You are present with yourself and this allows you to be present with your audience– not just having a love affair with your information- you’re actually sharing yourself AND your information with your peeps.

If you’re a coach, or offer transformation, people don’t just want your information, they want an experience of you and your information.  They want to feel connected to.

You’re probably thinking, “There she goes again with the embodied relating propaganda!  Get on with it girl!!”

Well, as you know, repetition is important!  Didn’t want to drop the underlying essence of all  videos!

OK, so what I’m calling ‘Connection’ Videos are short little Checkin/Follow Up Videos to 1 person, for example:

  1. that you met at a networking thang, (or at the healthfood store, etc…) and had the chutzpah to ask for their number! or card!- (yay you!-) and you want to follow up and connect with
  2. a past client you want to checkin and re-connect to etc…  The list goes on!

‘Connection’ Videos are a FUN, fast, easy, very effective and engaging way to build relationships and will make you stand out and be remembered!

And you know what they say, “the fortune is in the follow-up!”  And Follow-Up is one of the hardest things to do, right? Well ‘Connection’ Videos make it super fun and easy to do follow up!!

And what’s not to like?  Would you prefer to send (or receive) an email or text from someone you just met?  Or would you prefer to make (or receive) a ‘Connection’ Video???

I, personally, would prefer a ‘Connection’ Video!!  Hands down!  But that may just be me!  Let me know in the comments, I’m curious!

So lets get to the meat here!

Here are 10 ways to make ‘Connection’ Videos:

10 Ways to make Connection/Follow Up Videos! (These were my notes for the Facebook Live!)

 

1.  “Great to Meet You”  Video– connecting to someone you just met

2. “How are You?” Video–connecting with a past client

3. “Congrats on Your New Website!” Video (or on any awesome new thing in their life)-re-connecting with a past client, potential JV colleague, someone you admire and want to build a relationship with

4.”Lets schedule a time to catch up!” Video–connecting with someone you’ve been meaning to catch up with

5. “Follow Up after Free Consult” Video–connecting with someone who’s thinking about working with you after a free consult.

6.”Hi! Long time no connect! How are you” Video–re-connecting with someone who you gave a free consult to in the past and haven’t been in touch with in a long time

7. “I’ve been thinking of you and I have an idea for you” Video–connecting with someone who you’d like to work with or have worked with in the past.

8. “Here’s my feedback!” Video–connecting with a current client who emailed you a question- much more personal and much faster to send a quick video!

9. “Thank you!” Video–connecting with someone who referred you or did something you appreciate- either a Coach, Mentor, Colleague or Client 

10. “Happy Birthday!” Video–connecting with past clients, current clients, potential clients- to wish them a happy birthday or happy anniversary or any holiday etc..!

These are all fun ways to follow up, stay connected and build relationship!  Let me know in the comments below if this is helpful! And let me know which ones you are doing or if you’ve thought of new ones!!

 

I am now teaching my clients to make these ‘Connection’ Videos first if they are :

  1. challenged with being seen on video or
  2. challenged with what to say in their videos or
  3. tech challenged with making videos
  4. or all of the above!

‘Connection’ Videos are also a great choice when you don’t want to make videos because they’re easym fun, casual and they are a direct route to building client relationships and getting new clients!

If you want to learn the technical way of sending them as a  text- check out my fun vlog about video-texting!

 

I could go on and on, as you can see!!  These are multi-dimensional little bundles of love!  I can’t wait to hear what you think!  Let me know if you have any questions!


Self-Compassion vs Confidence + Free Self-Compassion Meditation!

Hope you’re enjoying 2018!! I was so inspired by Self-Compassion that I made a video about why it is even more valuable than Self-Confidence !!

And before the video, I recorded a powerful body-based, Self-Compassion Meditation. It was so relaxing and helped me connect so deeply to myself and my desire to share about Self-Compassion, that it made shooting the video such a pleasure and fun! So I’d like to offer you this practice!



I’d love to know how it works for you! Please comment or send me an email at: michelle@michellewhitehart.com

Being in a heightened state of Self-Compassion makes me almost feel like I’m still in Maui!! It feels magical! (Though, not always!)

I manifested an amazing work/holiday in Maui over Christmas and I’m tapping into that field of deep regeneration plus healthy generating!!  It’s a total win win!

While I was on Maui, I spent some magical time with a colleague and dear friend, Leerone Milstein, creatrix of Luminous Mapmakers, who has cultivated a deep practice of self-compassion and I got a deep transmission from her.  (She’s the one who took this fun pic of me in the jungle, on the road to Hana!)

Ironically, the day I got home, I landed on a NY Times  article about how  self-compassion might be even more useful than confidence since self-compassion organically creates, natural, un-forced self-confidence.

Just saying the word ‘Self-Compassion’ eases my nervous system. 

So I decided to make Self-Compassion my number one desire for 2018.   I know it’s going to be a game changer!!

When you have self-compassion, you are kinder to yourself and you are more willing to learn from your mistakes and get back on the horse more easily.

This Body-based meditation will also totally help you get out of judgement and into really liking yourself, which will allow you to enjoy being authentically YOU on video!!

So you get multiple benefits with this practice!!



Please comment below on how it’s working for you!! I’d love to know!

Wishing you an AMAZING New Year!

May 2018 bring you deep, soul-nuturing self-compassion so you can share yourself easily and with great joy!!